Tame Your Parents - The Real Revolution.

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2011-03-08T06:16:00.001-08:00

Quality over Quantity - Survival of the strongest

2010-03-19T12:29:00.000-07:00

The human race has strayed from the natural order of existence.

infact, its the most corrupt system you can imagine. let me explain this in kind of a sublime detail.

DNA! you see, genetics determine a great deal of your personality, assuming you are 6ft tall or if you are like a genius (not in terms of academics but just amazingly smart), you are bound to have a different level of confidence and execution as compared to those who don't.

But here's the thing, given the world population (6 billion), most of the people to exist are going to be losers, plain and out. simple.

imagine if the dude in the pic above has a kid, where would you rate his confidence?

compared to the kid of the dude below:

NADA! ZILCH! The former example is FUCKED! he wont get confidence, wont get laid. given his dad looked like that, most chances say his mom wouldn't be anything of beauty either.

So what is the solution to such a problem? I personally believe it would be better not being born than being born in such weak genetics.

There is more to it, environments also considerably shape people's personalities. For example a kid growing up in an orthodox islamic home in the middle east would have a much different personality than one growing up in a liberal rastafari Jamaican place.

so the corrupt system is obvious. its almost like a continous chain of who will dominate this earth, i.e 90% of the people in this world had their destinies decided before they were even born, they are born for the sole purpose of being underlings of the alpha male

Whats funny about this is that by nature, there is no value for quantity, the weak get erased and the strong take over. this ensures everyone gets a fair chance at being the leader. everyone becomes equal in nature in that respect.

Even the ancient cavemen had the same system, kill the weak dude, screw his chick if she is fertile (note: if she is fertile) and physically fit.

Now a lot of you may see this as a cruel act but this was the one true way of making sure everyone has a fair chance by erasing the weak, this method made sure weak kids would not be born, the alpha caveman screws 7 hotties, given that polygamy is so looked down upon in the modern world, people do not understand how much better it would have been for the kids of the 7 women to have a common alpha dad than 6 of them having a loser dad.

A similar equation can be seen in the countries where wearing a uniform in school is mandatory, i personally find this a very weak method to avoid inferiority complex. infact this is the best way to start survival of the fittest right from school.

I mean sure if you see those few kids wearing new outfits of armani, espirit and tommy. you are sure as hell going to be jealous. its going to hit you hard because you buy your jeans from walmart during the discount season. its not your fault, you just havent been born into money.

But the sooner you take the pain, the sooner you get over it and primarily this would become a test of fire, those kids who have confidence, courage, internal strength would get over the complex, those who dont won't and will be weeded out eventually.

Have you ever noticed how all tiger cubs look so darn cute and even when they become tigers, all the tigers look so beautiful, so majestic.

As for humans:

Dont they look just like your average healthy laughing blue eyed baby and the adults like Tom Cruise?

when you consider quality over quantity, this is what happens.

India has some 1400 tigers left but they can outdo in beauty the entire 1 billion people of India.

However, that being said you cannot kill people only on the basis that they are inferior (i wish i could though)

but you can change the way things work, its simple enough.

1.) Introduce the necessity of a certain annual income to be eligible to have kids.
2.) Down with uniforms
3.) legalize Polygamy
4.) Legalize Psychedelics (not related but hey!)
5.) Introduce a system of education which has nothing to do with memory but rather needs intelligence
6.) Completely ban arranged marriages (this is again a test of fire for the losers)
7.) Give Physical fitness a much higher priority, making sure schools have access to atleast 25 different sports.
8.) As much as possible, replace work which doesn't need creativity with computers (robots are being doctors these days fyi)

How the Media has destroyed Men and Women's spirits.

2010-01-09T02:43:00.000-08:00

The Movie Starts.

A sweet guy, very lonely. Very emotional, he struggles a lot, expresses sadness in front of the girl, whines like a bitch, girls gets moved, boy gets girl.

------ BULLSHIT ----- BULLSHIT ------- BULLSHIT -----

Here is my opinion: Men are like Trees and Women are like Creepers.

I am not saying one is superior to the other but simply both have individual roles. Men are supposed to take care of the women, its physiology/biology at work if not else.

Now the media has screwed this image for a very particular reason. 80% of the guys do not get women, do not get apex priority. The World of today is extremely competitive because of the population crisis. If the media said 'you are awesome as you are, you are enough' then nobody will buy their jeans and jackets. why would they? its pointless.

Remember, you are likely to spend money in stupid ways only if you are desperate and/or stupid.

Women want Men because they can take care of them and not the other way round so when guys behave all emotional, it makes them more creeper-like. How can such a tool take care of his girl? *technically speaking*

get my point? unless by 'take care' someone means mass suicide, it makes no valid sense whatsoever.

So this is how the destruction happens.

Even the guys who ARE masculine by trait will end up behaving like chicks because of social conditioning, culture, fashion, TV. Because eventually even a tiger can perform circus tricks by the fear of the man with the whip.

Similarly with the pressure of society and such, a lot of men do end up becoming unmanly.

The worst part is that these movies/cultures signify its okay to be a total loser, to be a man who cannot control his emotions, to be a dickcheese.

Now please understand what I am saying is not 'a man should suppress and ignore his emotions' but simply 'a man should face them, understand them and work with them, use them as tools rather than get moved by them'

At the end of the day, it is NOT okay to behave in such a manner. for your own sake if not for anything else, I mean girls can be crybabies, sweepy and stuff but thats ok, its normal for them, they experience a wide range of emotions on a daily basis. while watching a movie, tv series, whatever, thats their biological/psychological attunement. so its natural for them. they are feminine, receptive.

For dudes, the equation completely changes. I mean our ancestors were out there hunting sabertooth tigers and maniac huge bears, imagine our ancestors whining on every other instance. pretty lame.

Although I wish for the girls to use my book Tame Your Parents MORE than the guys, I want them to remember not to imitate guys in the way they handle the situations, they are dudes. you are chicks. Handle it the way that comes naturally to you.

Ego, the greatest enemy to... AWESOMENESS.

2009-11-16T11:17:00.000-08:00

I think all the enlightment and spiritual teachers have fucked up the reason on why the ego should not existed. They make it sound as if the only thing your ego will mess up is spiritual liberation and stuff.

But to tell the truth, ego will fuck up much much much much more than that.

first lets go into what exactly is your ego. In my opinion its your attachment to what you are perceived as, what your identity is.

For example, you are a respected doctor, you are a smart student, you are the cool funny guy, etc. Now you will be inclined to behave as a respected doctor or a funny guy or infact even a messed up guy because thats what your ego will identify you what.

For example, lets assume you are with your friends. They have this image of you that you are this very cool person, that you are this very smart person, and suddenly.

This chick walks past you.

By the way, this chick walks past fucking everyone, like atleast 50 dudes in the street, mall, whatever.

THEY WANT HER! THEY LUST HER! but they won't do shit!

why?

Because if they fail, their friends will laugh at him, they will make a joke about it, he will lose his cool image, I mean there is a great chance she will reject him, laugh at him, call him a loser, etc.

And his image of the 'smart guy' of the 'big guy' his overall value will be damaged in front of his friends and even himself to some extent. he will lose that 'pffft. I can't be rejected' thought he has (or atleast the image will be damaged)

So he will just smile and go home and wank while some other dude bangs the hottie above.

Sure, he spared his ego, but if we are optimistic...

There is a chance he could have won the chick and be banging her the very saturday

I mean he could have possibly had that beauty if he didn't give a shit about his image and whatsoever and taken a chance at life.

but he would rather have his comfortable position where he denies himself and just takes a look at the girl. Why? because he doesn't want a few numbnuts laughing at him or his dumb image of 'cool dude' getting ruined.

And for all you know, the girl could be the most fun chick ever, into cool music, playing cool sports, that would enrich his life big time but he didn't take the chance because he wanted to protect his image, carress his ego.

This will only lead to less awesomeness. forget the whole spiritual crap. This will take the fun out of your life because if you try there is nothing to regret whatsoever.

The Almighty Vinesh Hath Spoken!

A REAL Tribute to India.

2009-10-28T23:13:00.000-07:00

For all you non-indians (and indians), I want to show you the real glory of India.
Not the slum Children, not the overcrowded trains and malnourished dying kids and old women with diseases but the real India.

The real India carries a legend which can make most of you pee your pants a thousand times over.

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/f/ff/Buddha_in_Sarnath_Museum_(Dhammajak_Mutra).jpg

So never EVER think of us indians as poor.

we've probably rolled and balled so much, that our ancestors had fun points which would last well into 2500 AD.

And this current state you see in the movies is not us, its just temporary till we get back on our feet after the disgusting islamic invaders and faggot britishers had their lil invasions.

And to make things better for you.

India is responsible for the invention of zero, so we gave the vital to you using this computer to read this post. without us, you'd be friggin hillbillies and to top it off, we also were directly responsible for all the conciousness movements (zen, tantra, yoga), we'll get right back up so keep your sympathy to yourself and get back to your trailer and finish fucking your cousin or beating your wives, whatever suits you best.

Ancient Astronauts Theory: BULL!

2009-10-17T23:36:00.000-07:00

There is an interesting theory out there.

It says aliens came and fucked the original homo sapien women, which caused smarter generations to come ahead. This is pointed by the fact that before 6000 years, we were pretty much caveman and suddenly we started building pyramids and doing badass stuff.

So the conclusion by the brain trust was: ALIENS! FUCKING!

There is more to the theory, they believe suddenly cultures were building pyramids and all of a sudden, they stopped too.

Also they point out that a lot of ancient monuments seemed like signposts or made interesting shapes if viewed by Bird's Eye.

Now, I think this is retarded.

I am sure in 6000BC everyone = caveman and in 5999 BC everyone = pyramid dude wasn't the case.

Similarly, back in 1995, cellphones were relatively rare, expensive and internet pretty much did not exist.

In 2005, you could get GPS, streaming video on your cellphone and also be updated on live events via twitter. Not to mention you could take a picture with a 2 inch device and spread it all over the world.

Similarly in computers, within just the span of a generation, we are going from the 8 bit nintendo game to the 360 bit PS3 games and new PC games. not to mention a host of other badass things, I mean we are using computers to remote control two fucking robots all the way in mars

Now the logical conclusion would be: all the engineers and guys at NASA had their moms fucked by an alien.

well, maybe.

because its just a span of 20 years after all.

As for the monuments to impress someone watching from the sky. partially right but the idea of it being aliens is kind of odd. In all mythology/religion, Gods are said to 'rule up there' or 'up in the heavens'

Now one may use the ancient astronaut theory and say: u fkin n00b! alienz were da godz! datz why the whole thing.

Now what a lot of people do not understand is that in religions, people describe purity as 'ascension' or going up. There is a reason behind this (no. not aliens), the reason is that fire always goes upwards and that is also a poetic way of saying 'that which is ABOVE us all'

And imagine it this way, I am sure alien dudes are attracted to alien chicks, why earth chicks.

I mean would you fuck an alien chick?

So unless the aliens out there have crazy ass japanese anime fetish, I really can't figure this thing here.

Greek Philosophy and Life.

2009-09-15T07:38:00.001-07:00

Greek: Life is a battlefield.

A lot of ambitious guys might agree with life being a battlefield. But you know, the philosophy doesn't even remotely indicate that 'life must be a battlefield for those who want to win' but rather more like:
'You are in a battlefield whether you like it or not'
This includes everyone: Gandhi, John Lennon, You, Me, Freddie Mercury.

Why?
I know you are just a peaceful dude who wants to live his life and just chill with no violent intentions whatsoever.

Well, look at this way: Lets assume you find a beautiful lover and have a great time.

Umm... what does that indicate? Someone else is not having your beautiful lover.

And at the same time, the hot couple... either could have had someone else. This is just a singular example. Lets assume you get a promotion, someone else isn't getting it. If not for you, someone else would get the promotion.

If there are no servants, there are no bosses. If you are a famous band, you have outdone some other band to get where you are.

If you look at it even deeper, we all consume life on a daily basis.
Trees and plants are all alive (since they grow?) and we chew them (This is assuming you are not a meat eater).

Deers eat living plants, Tigers eat living deers. At the end of the day, everyone wants to be a tiger, who can never be hunted but can hunt relentlessly.

So keep your peaceful ideas to yourself since you so murderously munch on living plants and stuff. I mean, come on! Don't deny the obvious! You want to be someone big time! You want beautiful lovers and stuff! You are extremely violent to begin with.

The moment you have the desire to have an awesome car, to have a big house, to have hot lovers, etc. You are already violent because you want to get ahead in the race defeating someone.

So should you stop all your desires? Are you a prick for having them? NO! Its our very nature, its our very frame. We are meant to be violent, we are meant to outdo others and win.

Back in the day an alpha cave man just got a club and beat the fuck out of a beta caveman and took his chicks and hunting spots. It was way more simplified and honest, nothing personal!

And the same factor continues to this day: Only its substituted by things like money, power, looks, charisma, social conditioning, brains and luck. Its a complicated mess which is made to look pretty, like if you put cute bunny ears over a fucking cobra!

I know a lot of them think 'what if I am born without money, looks, luck and awesome enviornment, does it mean I am screwed?'

Well, Yes and No.

We have to first look into social conditioning, Lets assume two examples: John and Jack.
Both subjects have equal finances, equal looks, equal IQ.
John's parents are very pessimistic and often discouraging. He is in a religious catholic school which is extremely oppressive.
Jack's parents are total cool dudes, they are extremely optimistic and encourage Jack. He attends a pretty cool school.

They both are now 23 and are giving a job interview.
John is nervous because he has been discouraged, John can't freely speak his mind out of habit of being in an oppressive school. His confidence is eventually low.

Jack has the exact opposite case because of the exact opposite circumstance and gets the job.

This means there was no real merit but luck on Jack's part to be born where he was born.

If you are to directly compare this to the battlefield, lets assume a warrior who has got the coolest armour (money), wicked sword (looks+charima), great teacher (social conditioning), great genes (luck) and a strong helmet (brains) VS someone without those attributes.

It indicates that it will be much harder for the latter, NOT IMPOSSIBLE and if he wants to win his freedom, make money or the sort, he has to kill his opponent and learn, take his armour, its just a different level of difficulty.

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2009-08-21T23:24:00.001-07:00

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How to get your parents off your back

2009-08-14T09:29:00.001-07:00

I know you must be going 'I really really want to get my parents off my back'

Its extremely annoying when they interfere with every little thing you do.

really riles you up, eh?

but here's the thing: It shouldn't.

Parents are usually on your back for two primary reasons:

1.) They Think you can't handle your own life.

2.) They believe they have complete possession over you and that all your actions need their approval before being completed.

Now before we get started, I want you to figure out which one of the two (or both) suits your situation the most.

For Parents who think you can't handle your own life:

Well, there is a very simple solution to this:

MAN UP! (or woman up!)

You have to show your parents that you can take responsibility and that you don't need them, this can be very rewarding too in terms of mooching off:

1.) Do not complain in front of your parents
2.) Do not allow your parents (or anyone) to yell at you
3.) Make your own decisions, learn to say no.
4.) Set your boundaries and show acts of responsibility
5.) Treat your parents like you treat a friend.

I'll tell you why this works:

For Guys: Fathers expect their kids to be 'real men' and when their kids fail to show the ability to take responsibility, THEY feel like failures.

Its a very genetic thing, everyone has high hopes for their children, one of them is that the kid would be like the most dominating or alpha child in the society, group, etc.

And simple signs of being dominant and responsible are not complaining, making boundaries, making your own decisions, not cowering.

You also have to make sure you don't sound like a wimp while talking to your friends.

Similarly, Mothers expect their sons to be the kind of tough guy who takes responsibility for everything and is decisive.

Its actually a trait all women appreciate in men, the decisiveness and the toughness, if that becomes apparent, the parents would be very pleased, they would assume they raised superman himself.

I mean, imagine a mom going 'my SON just does what his friends tell him to and gets yelled at by us'

doesn't it feel very sad?

So remember, if you so much as set your boundaries and make it clear, not by words but by action:

Get off my back, I can handle my shit.

The parents would be more than happy to oblige, actually very proud.

For Girls:

Well, one fear all moms have is that a girl would just run away with a random loser, get pregnant and stuff because girls are often driven by:

EMOTION.

I mean, when you hear your favourite music, have you noticed YOU CAN'T HELP BUT DANCE.

This can be traced all the way back in the prehistoric times, girls were supposed to mate with the strongest guys but if they were emotionally driven enough, a random douche could get lucky and this was bad for the girl and her lineage.

Similarly, keeping this in regard... mostly parents would be on your back to make sure you don't make mistakes which could prove really bad.

Now, there are two way around this:

1.) Good Girl Act:
you just gotta act, act like someone who always thinks about the future and is very sacred.

Someone who won't make the wrong decisions, won't smoke, won't drink, is the prime example of 'sacred'

what this means is: Be nasty but don't get caught.

2.) High Standards:

What this indicates is that you gotta do things only which are important, by this what I mean is that you should not talk to losers in front of your parents.

You should not talk to stoners, drunks and hos while your parents or friends of your parents can watch.

This also indicates that you should have a watch or a control over your emotional outbursts:

you shouldn't go like: OMIGOOOSHHHH! WOW!!! ITS DANIEL CRAIG!!! I JUST LOVE HIM!!! OOOH!

What that indicates in a way is that you are easy prey for a Daniel Craig Lookalike.

You have to show that a new bag, new jeans, a poodle or whatever wouldn't be strong enough to completely make you wobble.

its a justified fear actually.

So you gotta act like a really really high standards girl to the point that you won't react even to your parents.

That is how a girl could her parents off her back

Case 2: Getting Authoritative parents off your back.

Now authoritative/possessive parents have an entirely different reason for getting on your back than normal parents.

The reason they tend to be so commanding is that they like to be valued.

If you notice keenly, the very possessive parents likely do not posses any authority outside of their families.

From my observations, such parents are usually from a low-middle income background and do not have many friends/admirers and as a natural outburst of that, they tend to be forceful and demand respect.

Ironically, although they may seem too dominant, they are actually the first to cower when they realize that they cannot use their authority on their target.

So your simple response to such a parent is rebellion

By rebellion I don't mean shouting back but simply disobeying the rules they set for you.

I know its kinda scary but trust me, the possessive parents are usually bluffing, even if you hear their stories... you will notice how highly exaggerated they are.

Now as for the reaction, when they shout at you, imagine a beggar or a McDonald's worker in their place.

Treat them like dirt, make them feel like they are worth no respect and value.

Ignore them like you ignore a beggar asking for change.

They will start unleashing their fury on others thereafter.

And because they cannot get to you, they will get off your back, the last thing they want is damage on their ego.

So this is my opinion on how to get parents off your back.

Gandhi: Father of the nation? FUCK GANDHI!

2009-08-05T15:40:00.000-07:00

Father of the Nation.

Pretty powerful title to carry.

as a lot of you know, Mohandas Gandhi was a person who advocated peace, non-violence and stuff.

I think thats bullshit.

Gandhi used to fast to death until his demands were met.

Like Osho said, thats not non-violent, thats absurdly violent! thats blackmail!

How is that considered peaceful?

And even so,

If you look at the facts, it was the post World War II Atlee Government that made all the efforts to give India its independance.

But if you look at it from my perspective:

The British took a lot of national treasures from India
They literally robbed all the farmers and made beggars out of them.

Is that even remotely justified?

And are we supposed to be non-violent about it?

If you ask me, there is a time to be non-violent and there is a time to be violent.

If by being non-violent, we are letting injustice happen and the ends result in a lot of damage, the non-violence is worth shit.

And at the same time if we have only violence and no brains we would become a very backward and a very ignorant country.

I think both have their place and time.

One thing I can never respect is a poor frail weak man being revered as 'the father of the nation'

Being in such a shameful state, he is the last person that should be made as a role model for the generations to come.

A role model should be a strong, wealthy and a very happy man.

I mean, if the leader is so frail and weak, what does it say about the country.

as a saying goes:

It is better to have a wolf for a leader guiding an army of sheep rather than having an army of wolves guided by a sheep.

And to add insult to injury, this man Gandhi probably had no knowledge of the ancient culture of India.

Speaking on subjects like Celibacy, non-violence, purity of means...

Our culture created Kamasutra and we were the ones who sent Alexander the Great packing his bags to Greece so spare me the bullshit about culture.

Heck, if you read the Bhagavad Gita and know about Shiva.

Destruction of the evil is very much a part of our culture.

Gandhi has often claimed 'the gita is my mother'

crap! Gita pretty much emphasizes that people are immortal anyway so its okay to kill when the need arises.

And even the legends point to destroying those who commit crimes rather than holding our dicks and talkng about non-violence.

My two cents,
vinesh panditpotra.

Are you happy being in a zoo?

2009-08-01T14:37:00.000-07:00

People are under the assumption that only animals are held captive and that they are completely free.

To what extent is this true?

I mean having an affair in middle east countries = death

Freedom of religion in middle east countries = death

Homosexuality in middle east countries = death

Smoke Pot in America = Jail

Speaking for democracy in China = you disappear

No Internet use allowed in Cuba, heavy censorships everywhere, heavy cultural restrictions (especially from family and society)

If you give it a thought, the only visible difference is HOW BIG THE CAGE IS.

But at the end of the day there are several things even in places in USA, Amsterdam, Brazil (the epitome of freedom) that will kind of restrict you by freedom.

I do not know what they are since I don't live there but I am sure, there is something! Even if there isn't, there are still well over 3 billion people living in cages.

But There is a catch

you probably don't realize that the door to that cage is not locked at all!

wwhat does that indicate?

That you my friend don't have the balls to walk out of the cage.

A bird has two choices:

He can live in a cage, small ass stinking cage and be VERY SECURE. VERY SAFE.

Or

He can get out there and risk being hunted by larger birds, snakes, etc.

Thats His Decision.

so keeping that in perspective, Remember one thing!

If you choose to oppose your government, There is a huge risk of you getting screwed!

But the question I want to ask is: Do you want to live in the cage or die in the open sky?

And to tell the truth, A zoo cannot run without animals, They cannot afford to arrest everyone who goes up against them, they cannot afford to kill every man!

wwho the fuck pays all the taxes? The governments run because we feed them!

The Zoo runs because there are animals captive.

There is no reason for us to take shit, we have fed this leech too long and it has become too strong.

If we stop feeding it, this leech will hurt us a little but we are way too many and soon the leech will get hungry and die.

And don't give me shit which goes like: I'll do this when everyone else is doing it.

Fuck No! Fuck Everyone else! Its your freedom we are talking about!

Be the change you want to see in the world, if you want the world to fight for freedom.

Start with yourself!

2009-07-20T11:25:00.000-07:00

How would you stop child abuse?

I mean 4 kids die in the USA alone everyday.

that makes it over 1k kids dying by child abuse in the USA

1k kids DYING!

I mean I am all happy for those child abuse prevention centres and stuff but with most of the cases being unreported and atleast 1k confirmed deaths a year...

they are doing a fucking messy job.

And it is not our place to judge these child abuse prevention centres because we are not running one ourselves.

Given that, I believe it is the child's responsibility as a person to make sure he doesn't go through abuse.

thats his lookout.

Does that mean that we, the responsible adults just keep our hands on our dicks?

Nope.

I believe its upto us to spread awareness and mainly make the kids understand that they don't deserve this shit and they won't be committing a crime by going tit for tat.

I don't say play 'eye for an eye'

I say if someones poking your eye, break his fucking jaw off.

Because poking each other's eyes for an extended period is just stupid and really leads you nowhere but two blind people.

Because a lot of people who are not abused, always ask me 'should we beat up some abusive parents?'

'how should we help stop this shit?'

If you beat the abusive parents now, the abusive parents will fuck up the kid's life when you are not around,

And moreover, let the kid fight his own battles otherwise he just won't grow up.

he'll form the very bad habit of depending on others for saving his ass and hence won't grow the things needed the most to survive:

BALLS!

I know this thing sounds like its made only for men but thats not the case, I cannot sound transgender even if I try :P

so to sum this thing up, what you can do is:

SPREAD AWARENESS

you might want to consider buying the ebook I am selling at http://www.tameyourparents.com and giving it to a kid who needs it.

download the free samples to see what I am all about :)

Kudos, vineshp.

Fighting with Parents?

2009-07-19T02:43:00.000-07:00

If you are fighting with parents...

WIN!

Check the other posts in this blog and learn some stuff.

I don't think you should be fighting with parents to begin with, because parents are not supposed to fight with you, they are older and stronger and they are supposed to protect you, not beat the flying fuck out of you.

So I think you are the one who has to protect himself here.

Keep in mind, its not like you are abusing someone weaker than you like the Nazis, you are more like protecting yourself from a stronger enemy.

Here's my two cents:

Learn Martial Arts

Get Pepper Spray/Brass knuckles, whatever it takes!

But DO NOT GET BEATEN UP, EVER!

YOU DESERVE BETTER!

If you want to know more, please visit my webste: http://www.tameyourparents.com

Kudos,
Vinesh Panditpotra.

How to Deal with Angry Parents

2009-07-17T13:09:00.000-07:00

How to Deal with Angry Parents:

For starters you have to understand that anger is actually a weakness and not a strength.

I'll tell you why:

One day I am walking on the road, fuming with rage and suddenly I bump into a stone, my toe is bleeding terribly.

Did you understand?

Anger equals ignorance and blind rage (note: blind)

What that also significantly indicates is that the anger can be redirected to elsewhere without difficulty.

Especially at an enemy.

One thing you have to understand is that nobody lashes out anger at where he cannot.

For example: At a cop, at a boss, at a stronger person

so by law, the weaker link is primarily targeted.

There are two ways to go about this:

One is to show no response to the anger, as if you just don't care.

Angry people want some authority and attention, if you don't give that, they are likely to divert their anger elsewhere

A simple way to get around to this is to entirely ignore the parent when he is angry

like: just read something while he is yelling, forget that he exists.

its a blow to his ego and he will understand his anger should go somewhere else.

The Second Way is more brutal and perhaps beneficial:

If you have a grudge against someone, say your neighbour, an aunt or even HIS friend.

You can tell him something along these lines:

Well, you don't angry when *insert target name* says that you are a loser

This will literally kill two birds with one stone,

So go for it.

A tribute to my old PC

2009-07-16T09:05:00.000-07:00

Back in 2003, I had a 64 MB RAM PC, a Pentium II.

It was a shit ass PC.

I wailed and wailed (I was 13) till mom got me a Pentium IV in 2003.

It was the in thing then with the 256 MB RAM.

I watched countless hours of porn on it, read frightening amount of manga scans, watched maybe a thousand anime episode and over a hundred movies on it.

Learned so much from Wikipedia, met some people who would change my life via the very PC.

Saw possibilities of great ambition after seeing the images of Ferarris and Kawasaki Motorcycles.

The PC gave me dreams, plenty of them.

Listened so much beautiful music, amazing music.

I also wrote my books on the very PC.

I took weight loss advice from the PC and lost over 40KGs.

Of late, the PC had become numb, couldn't load, was too slow, it had aged.

I bought a new PC with a Core 2 Duo 2 GB Ram, 19 inch flat screen and all stuff cool.

The throne of the wooden desk is captured by the new PC.

While the old one sits parallel to it on the ground waiting to be sold.

I wonder what it would be like if PCs have a soul, how sad would my old PC be thinking this newb with the fast RAM and cool configs has taken his place.

That he is discarded despite being the one who gave all that much out.

Today was the last time I used the old PC, to transfer some data via a hard disk.

I always used to think of myself as a prick for leaving girls for better girls.

But now that I think about it, its very justified in a way.

If I used the old PC, it would have been nearly impossible to work, nearly impossible to get anything done and I would have had a hard time growing.

Since I am an online businessman after all.

All I can to my old PC is THANK YOU

THANK YOU VERY VERY VERY MUCH

I LOVE YOU AND IT IS NOT OUT OF HATE THAT I DISCARD OUT BUT OUT OF NATURAL FLOW.

AND I WILL REMEMBER YOU, YOU HAVE MY GRATITUDE, ARIGATOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!

Perhaps the PC deeply wishes a girl dumps me after I love her very much for me to feel the same he feels sitting straight looking at the newbie who has taken his place.

But the truth is:

When I have enough money to buy a Mac, this PC will be biting the dust as well and staring at Mac the same as you stare at him.

And I will give this PC my gratitude too.

But really, thanks for holding out as long as you did, old PC. I am sure it wasn't easy.

And thank you for all the good memories.

You are not doing, you are immortal in my memory.

All the times when you hung or the times when you showed me those amazing movies, man... I love you!

Everything in my path is a step on ladder: you, this pc, the next PC... everything!

And I know looking at your screen turned off and your wires detached, you have a soul too no matter what anyone says.

So once again:

Thanks for everything
I really appreciate it

And.

Farewell.

2009-07-15T05:59:00.001-07:00

I just created a cover for my book.

check it out:

Ubuntu is really cool, nice graphic editor.

Angry with Parents? Learn to deal with it.

2009-07-15T00:47:00.000-07:00

Anger is useless.

Let me give you a good example for you to understand what I mean to say:

One fine day, I am angry at a teacher and walk around outside of college, like fuming and BAM!

My toe smashes a rock, its bleeding terribly! useless!

Anger takes away something extremely valuable and vital:

Objective.

An angry person always forgets what he will get from his actions, he has no goal... hence it is a waste of energy, like running on a treadmill to reach home.

So next time you get angry, go to a secluded places and let the anger out, don't let anyone see you lose your cool, that would just make you weak.

go there with old utensils and break them up, it helps you chill out.

The question is: what about your parents?

Well, for starters, download the free sample at: http://www.tameyourparents.com

secondly, what I suggest is:

Not reacting.

Because if the parent knows he/she got you angry, thats going to leverage on their end.

Try to show them as if they don't matter to you, as if they are incapable of riling you up.

Make sure they fume with anger and damage themselves, not you.

Lots more to learn if you purchase my ebook at http://www.tameyourparents.com

What if a comet is headed to earth?

2009-06-28T02:53:00.000-07:00

Its a strange but interesting thing...

We worry about so many things, so so so many things are always revolving in our head as extremely important:

'I want that new car'

'she was bitching about me'

'she loves me? she loves me not? who is she talking to?'

'I have had such a miserable life'

'my parents said this to me, that to me'

amidst all that...

BOOM!

BAM!

OVER IN AN INSTANT!

I swear, all the silly things we fret about, they don't make any sense at the grand scale.

Like, the north star in the sky is way bigger than the sun!

Imagine something along those lines coming towards earth!

I don't think Bruce Willis and his drilling team would do much for us then :D.

This by the way is what one crater did to earth:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cretaceous–Tertiary_extinction_event

Isn't it amazing?

I mean when an earth, tsunami occurs... in an instant everything is zapped!

Its not like your worrying is going to divert the course of the comet!

I am not trying to say 'fuck life' here but simply that in the grand scale nothing matters, while you are reading this some comet could very well be a few minutes away from giving you the hardest bitchslap.

So don't waste life!

imagine if the comet hit you now, wouldn't you think: I wish I had punched that asshole teacher once before this?

I wish I could have asked her out

I wish I could have gone to amsterdam

Wouldn't you think of doing so many things you didn't do?

So go for it now!

Who knows, the comet could turn up tomorrow?

Who knows, an earthquake, a tsunami, eubola, Elton John... the worst could happen at any instant!

and even if it doesn't, I got a newsflash for you, honey!

You Sir, Are Not Immortal!

My point is that we can never know what is going to happen, that is plainly invisible...

And to tell the truth all our worrying and thoughts and everything amounts to nothing because of the sheer force of existence.

I mean you could be Barrack Obama or Osama Bin Laden! The comet coming at you won't be like:

Comet: Oh wait, This guy is so cool, he is the president of the hockey club, I shouldn't splat him but I should splat the guy every calls a loser who is two feet away from him!

NO!

BOOM!

So in the grand scheme, nothing really matters!

So just go for it!

DO IT!

Right Now! Because who knows what can come tomorrow?

All you can do is live your today!

Life will go on and on... whether you like it or not

2009-06-11T12:45:00.000-07:00

Today, something significant struck me.

something beautiful at that.

I remembered a crush I had when I was in the 4th grade.

When I was in 4th grade, I used to spend the entire day thinking of her, like thinking of her before going to sleep, while waking up and saying to myself 'I love you'

I never acted on it though.

I also had a crush when I was in the 7th grade, I thought equally about her, very funny now that I try to remember it.

Again, when I was in SSC I had a major crush on this chick though I got rejected.

Every moment, we think to ourself 'OH! This is it!'

Or whenever we are in a mess, that becomes pretty much all that we think about and consider something like 'the truth'

But if we look back on it, didn't we always move on?

Just try to remember, the things that used to be 'everything' for us are not us anymore, are they?

I mean, I personally find it hard to remember the faces of the girls I was 'madly in love with'

life is amazing, I swear.

It is not just with women but pretty much with everything, favourite bands, favourite song, problems, insecurities...

No matter how much we worry or fret about it, we'll always be walking away and saying goodbye and saying hello every moment of our lives.

Life is so beautiful, almost as if we are destined to keep walking with a smile.

Makes us sound so blessed, doesn't it?

I know a lot of people who have lost a parent or someone really important but just after a year or so, they smile and laugh like always.

And that is absolutely amazing!

it assures me that we can never fight against the grand flow, eventually we will be floated along!

so the point I am trying to make is: stop clinging because you can't!

the sun shall always shine, even amidst a battlefield... life will go on and on and on.

Just imagine the intensity and worrying during World War 2 but look at the world now, pretty fucking cool, aint it?

Heck look at it just twenty years later, man was landing on the moon, hippies were overflowing with love, music was soaring through the nations!

Everything always is going to be alright so just have a fucking ball!

Are you fit to vote?

2009-05-26T02:24:00.000-07:00

What do we expect out of politicians?

We want them to be honest.

We want them to be non-corrupt.

We just want them to be angels!

My question to you is:

Are you completely honest?

I mean do you never lie about your past, like when you had those braces and played World of Warcraft?

Tell me, let us assume you are speeding your vehicle beyond limits and the cops get to you...

They offer you to give them a bribe over paying the legal fee which is four times as much? Would you not do it?

And the worst part is that you would also make a lot of reasons on why you did that and still remain a honest person.

So to tell the truth, you would do the same if you were them.

I mean you are corrupt in smaller measures which is why you curse them, they are corrupt in bigger measures.

But ultimately, both sides are corrupt only that the politician is more capable.

And what else do you want from the politician?

I know a lot of people cursed Bill Clinton because he had affairs...

What is wrong with that?

He is just fucking! He is a human being who gets a boner!

I think the root of corruption lies in the fact that you fail to accept a normal person as your leader.

And this is visible throughout history, considering the way the scriptures describe the leaders:

Jesus was born to a virgin

Buddha was born with a full set of teeth

etc etc

Trust me, buddha jesus krishna muhammed ALL TOOK A PISS AND DROPPED THE KIDS IN THE POOL.

Provided their bodies died, they were all very human.

So my point being:

Live as the example you want to see before demanding one.

And most certainly don't complain like a tijuana crackwhore

Where does a revolution begin?

2009-05-26T01:59:00.000-07:00

Often, the idea 'revolution' is directly associated with overthrowing something.

For example a civil rebellion when successful is credited to 'create a revolution'

However, the way I see it... Revolution is a fight for freedom to say the least.

When you look at it intently, what is a tyrant? Someone who restricts you!

Let us look at some definitions of cruelty to understand this:

Nazism insists that homosexuals be gassed and stuff
Islamic Societies deprieve women of equal social rights
Current Orthodox Hinduism is against PDA and pre-martial sex

All of the above show examples of people exercising authority over someone's freedom.

And throughout history there have been revolutions of authority, especially in Cuba.

But can you call them 'revolutions?' or are they not simply wars?

One prick replaces another! So where do REAL REVOLUTIONS come in?

I'd say they start from YOU

Yes, you you you you!

It starts at your very place, it starts with your very thought, it BEGINS BY YOUR ACTIONS.

So how does this real revolution work?

Next time you are yelled at by a teacher or a parent and you believe you are not at fault, Don't Take It.

Tell the person to go fuck himself.

Do not be afraid of the punishments, just reward yourself for your act of courage.

Being Revolutionary requires iron balls, you need to be gutsy enough to scare a tiger if you want a REAL REVOLUTION.

It will become your duty to oppose anyone who restricts your freedom, it will become your duty to start the revolution from this very moment!

Real revolution begins at home, oppose tyranny NOW!

Any coward can make a million reasons to back out and 'survive' with injustice but a needs courage to LIVE.